Thursday, February 18, 2010

Toronto Love! Toronto Love! Toronto Love!

Many people believe that love must enters routine. In other words, losing vitality.

Maximum stay they think this partnership, convenience, habits.

Obviously this is only a partial statement. For us anyway.

Me and you have a wonderful feature, inner strength to love our heart and nourishes it every day.

Always tell you "how lucky we met" and you will continue with "You love me anyway?" Answer that "very very"

Both willing to explain to the world who wants one for the thousandth time how rare and special and why can not anyone to replace him ...

Each of us waiting for us to "tell things" and eager to know what we will respond to different issues.

Mobile call each other .. "unconscious" ... all the pips.

And .. how .. some enjoy sitting together on paper, do bills, plan vacations operations, Sfotzim, entertainment, shopping, travel and work. Salad every night.

No matter what the background is excited latency for a shared adventure ... even when things are routine for all the nuisance they individually "No matter what we do point to be with you "...[ remember ..?]

Each of us happy .. really happy when one of us leaves joins other errands, visits a hospital, a family meeting, even Sympathy us really creates a sense of shared port parties.

You're glad to tell that "bought you" what's so we wanted ... even "one pocket.

Each of us critical of his family, friends of the other as much as we ... but we visit the same breath, as if they conscientiously treat my family, yours.

You are recording from the television programs you thought would interest me, I see the movies with ketchup corpses ... you have at the same time stroking the thigh and takes my hand very close.

Acccc .. some fun in bed together, reading books and newspapers ... even though you are sometimes disappointed that you realize that I had a world of dreams ...

Middle of the night Hold me tight spoons Kiss my shoulder whisper in my ear "mine, all mine and only mine" ... and I Ahnan while drowsy Oaasr your statement.

No we asked for from the beginning that one can not sleep when waking up the other ...?? And how we promised that change ... that we help in times more difficult to calm ... to help each other to sleep.

Angry silences are alive ... alive we try not to think it exists. When there is disagreement, argument, quarrel, I try hard not to relax until my return it ...

And if I see a look "evil" on your face I'm telling you "Come on, tell, tell!"

No prescriptions, Aviloli, double happiness. But I think we have to concoct winning menu.

Fact, every day we fall in love with each other ... again.

Love you .. very very very .....

Toronto Happiness: Where Is It My Love?

What is happiness?
How to relate to the emotion of happiness?

Answer.

An example of our wrong thinking, emotion causes us to be happy.
If I feel happy.
So, I'm the one who feels the emotion of happiness!
Happiness is an inner feeling, it's me!

Happiness is an emotion in my body, is within me, is in my blood!
So, I'm happy with myself, and entered a state of delirium, and then I act in accordance with the emotion of happiness!

I'm not happy about anything else that I have an external!
I attribute what I feel this sense of happiness in me, for it is an external factor to me, he actually becomes a mine victim to my emotional need to be happy, and just did not feel the emotion of fear and sadness, and the rest of those feelings that make me feel bad!

Because of lack of understanding, I think I'm happy because it external factor to me, so I lose my true identity.

Why do I lose my true identity?
I lose my true identity, since behavioral changes, as a result I think the emotion of happiness in me, caused by someone or something or some event is external to me, when in fact I'm the one who decides and feel the emotion of happiness, and it's happy, then I think and imagine, that makes Another determining factor, when in fact he was the victim of my wrong thinking.

Some people think that if they are happy, then someone else responsible for this, but it's a mistake to think so, the external factor is responsible, and certainly it does not access a calm, rational and businesslike.

Example:
The spouse mine makes me feel happy.
Initiating event in my life I served made me feel happy.
The choice whether to be excited and be happy is the exclusive choice of the human person.

Damage health.
It's a situation of losing our self-ego, whatever you do, and losing our true identity.

This is true of all the emotions activated by its internal personality Ttnftz endless figures.

Relaxed human lives without inner feelings.

Inner feelings create internal conflicts, internal contradictions, so the goal is to improve inner calm, and connect with myself, our true identity.

No human being relaxed swinging between emotions that make him feel good, like: love, joy, joy, laughter, joy, passion and more emotion to make him feel bad, like fear, anxiety, depression, despair, joy, etc., or vice versa, these They lead to nerves in the brain, hormones, chemicals that we manufacture in our bodies make us addicted to emotions that we produce ourselves, the physical body and behave accordingly, which causes unstable emotional swing in our lives.
Christian feelings chemicals, a cocktail of chemicals in different doses, which creates a chemical composition that causes us to conduct blood unsettled and unstable internal torment, resulting in correct operating island of the physical body weakening the immune system, diseases, physiological phenomena exhaustion, old age and death.

Only when the human being he is connected to calm himself, his real identity, you start feeling no matter which one breaks the human person Myself his true identity, then the human person is calm, his ability to translate and understand the reality in which he lives will clearly more.

It was like?
Injected the drug addict physical body through a syringe into the bloodstream, causing a state of delirium, the difference is that a human is running the physical body through emotion, it is also Sam, he created the drug within the physical body, then he also entered a state of delirium , which makes him break his true identity, the reality is an illusion, and act the way he is calm.

Conclusion:
Feeling of happiness and other emotions built interior, are the main cause for human suffering that exists in the world.
Fixed human is calm, rational and purposeful, to create a reality that calm and peaceful.

Humans revised and relaxed, rational and businesslike who understand the nature and purpose of their lives, are evolutionarily, in terms of cosmic, and spiritually, to live in reality she was calm and peaceful social and Yigal themselves suffering emotional harm our health.

Summary:
The main factor for physiological phenomena, wear and tear, weak immune system, disease, old age, suffering and death are internal feelings.
When we run the inner feelings, even feelings that make us feel good, and emotions that make us feel bad, we enter into the consciousness of wrong thoughts, hallucinations, fantasies, even when awake and during sleep, this situation makes us detach myself, our true identity , resulting in an incorrect translation of reality in which we live.

As the inner feelings that we produce the physical body, we enter a fantasy situations, resulting images we create for ourselves characters, these are not our true identity.

Happiness is an emotion that makes us vision, see, think and imagine ourselves and spouse selection and the people in our society, and the reality we live in an illusion.

Everyone happy, tortured and suffering in it, and he can not process the real data and reach conclusions, not of himself nor the spouse and the people whose company and the reality in which he lives.

Therefore, to keep ourselves healthy, and not lose our true identity, has to learn to identify the emotion of happiness and other emotions built interior, and disconnect them consciously and with a desire and ability, rather than from repression, then there are his emotions, physical body and function in a calm , stable, balanced and tuned, then the immune system to function in a more stable, and will allow us to be more relaxed, and we allow our physical body to heal, repair, renew, clean and build himself his own.

Only the human being himself, with the understanding, capacity building will change the wrong habits, can repair itself by himself.

Toronto Love Life - Toronto Live Life

Easy to identify serial killer. Bodies remain after the murder. A style similar action. Similarities between the victims, areas where the murders occurred. All these and many characteristics help us identify the fact that serial killer in the country. Famous sons is no doubt Jack the Ripper who worked in London and caught, Ted Bundy, Sam Berkowitz, Jeffrey Dahmer and others.

All bachelor are, Divorced, widowed are married are arranged is a potential love. Fact there are many more men than women (as among the killers) are the power of love I got. So I will refer my article to the men as loving offensive. This article will refer population over the age of thirty-assuming that those people experienced the love experience, are mature enough, have accumulated experience and are not too childish. Most of them likely economic situation over him, most for military service (some big, surprisingly, were officers or combat service long). In other words: a normative, based background and is easy to fall in love with him. This problem.

Spare population around them "like Sidrtim. You can not, God forbid, Lhashimm murder and they do not leave bodies behind. But, they hearts killers leaving a long trail of broken heart women.

As among the serial killers hard to find similar characteristics between them. Even among the "victims" not found similar characteristics. Perhaps if hard we try, we can find similar personality characteristics and signs that may help we can find them before they cause damage difficult to repair hit later.

This article is based on scientific research. It is based on many conversations with women and men, reading extensive literature on this subject, personal knowledge and examination of changing situations. Difficult to draw the profile who falls in love series. Difficult to establish hard facts about him. But there are several characteristics that can indicate a significant detection of such person.

It would be a divorced man who has grown children and is looking for the "love of his life." Perspective is "paid" his debt to society the divine imperative of continued generation. This person decides whether consciously or subconsciously he does not want "serious relationship" that can prevent him the chance to find "the one" as he dreamed, as seen in movies as it thinks it exists. This person fall in love with the concept of love quickly, but also disappointed fast gray reality.

This person Shikfid on his dress and behavior in society. Always tries to impress. Impress those around him, to impress itself. Ithdr is usually several academic degrees, Infnf financial ability. He'll be a fluent utterance, or at least think he possessed this feature. This man talk about himself and hear you. Not only listen to hear. This person be related to an object or instrument as a substitute for the constant love he can not find it. It could be: a hobby impressive, instruments with which he sees his musical abilities. It could be that the situation generally impressive vehicles: Car collectors, a fancy car, a light aircraft parked at an airport abroad, a terrifying motorcycle, yacht moored to an unnamed port.

This man led by his ego and his ego leads. No place to another woman. He can talk for hours about love sublime, the laws of love, the ways of love, different rules and laws evolving relationship. He fell in love with a woman whom the first or second meeting. He loved her so long as it meets all of his dreams and fantasies. He always leaves the possibility that True love is not elusive there. He felt, he would not betray the woman with whom it would keep contact with other women. He will never be satisfied. Always with the feeling that the love of his life is just around the corner and can avoid it. He looks for her tireless persistence even when contact with another woman who had vowed and declared love.

Eventually this poor man. Man blowing his own words. He is convinced that God's gift to every woman, the man who thinks, serious understanding. He is convinced that if only finds the "love of his life" He will stay with her forever and they will live "happily ever after for life 'as those legends which he was educated. He only found the same one designed for him. One does not exist in fact. It does not exist, but, as a carton. He thinks he knows how it should look like. (blonde blue-eyed, you might guess). He knows what features it has a preliminary hearing. He can also know what his favorite smell has. He is not ready complexity, personality, traits many. He is not willing to true love with a woman. He is ready to love "real" with his fantasy of his imagination.

He, never found her. Cliff times and eventually exposed the features least "good" woman's team. Ttfogg love her. Start new thrills, new expectations, new beginnings never-ending search for her love and is unreachable.

I think many of those good thing. Sidrtim manage them like each chapter to make the second marriage to bad shame about it.

Anger: Solving Your Problems Peacefully

Who of us angry?? Who of us is angry about your partner? Many times lack of experience Spock relationship expressing the frustration anger on each other. It is important to know that anger is only one emotion from a variety of our emotions is an integral part of any relationship and especially couples. This is the normative sense, not necessarily destructive. The question is what dose, what is the intensity of anger and our ways of dealing with this emotion. Each of us has a different style of anger expression of a response to anger their partners. The style of our childhood experiences related to expressions of anger family of origin. Anger about the coupe can be visible or invisible. Overt anger is expressed usually noisy quarrels, arguments and accusations. Hidden anger is expressed in different ways such as avoiding closeness, avoidance of sex, smells personal pursuits, work until late, burst on the other example: the children, physical pain, psychosomatic diseases, depression and feeling. Many not aware of what's behind their behavior and sometimes just the couple turn to professional couples therapy, anger and ways Lbitoim exposed.

Anger has double functions in destructive negative but also positive functions. Negative functions: whether overt or covert anger, there is concern that over time produced emotional and physical distance relationship odds. Reasons why the fact that these couples find it difficult to develop a real dialogue between them in which they express their pain and needs. So that over time created their feelings of disappointment and frustration accumulated emotional charges. Gradually disappear reciprocal gestures they had done together, spend more separately than together, more experience about the silences, accusations comptroller cost more and may reach a betrayal or divorce situations. So, the anger expressed at the height of power and vulnerability are severe and destructive. Positive functions: some expressed anger at times need not be aware of. Already Binkotno We are angry and crying and did not verbally express our needs - food, love, attention, etc.. The expectation is that as adults we use language acquired in close contact with your partner Onbta it literally. Many can not express their needs directly, and if so then your partner is not always attentive. In these cases anger, unconsciously, come to refine what we feel. In my experience as a caregiver couples, I meet women or men who experience loneliness and relationships hard time expressing their feelings directly and need attention and affection from your partner. Instead, they are angry about other things.

For example - the woman can be angry at the husband who sits long hours at the computer or the husband was angry that his wife go out alone with her friend. Couples therapy can help them create an intimate atmosphere during the time with the marital therapist to reveal the unconscious needs. Another function that anger is to create distance from a partner. Spouses, one of our conflicting needs is the need for proximity, together with the need for distance, being alone. Double balanced system there is room for these two conflicting needs. However, relations that do not have a personal space where one partner feels suffocated, there likely will be angry that he initiated a fight to create a distance and be alone.

How do you handle anger? Each pair should be aware of his anger about the style of couples, to understand what function fills the anger of their relationship and what the true needs of each one. The challenge is to learn to express anger constructively. To do so need to build a relationship based on open communication, dialogue among, mutual respect and intimacy. The couple must learn to express empathy for each other, learn to express their real needs, be prepared to take responsibility and make changes. Some couples create successful intimate relationships by themselves but there are those who need professional support, advice or a guiding hand. Those couples therapy is recommended to contact a professional. With a double discourse consultant in the consulting room the opportunity to develop dialogue among shares. Anger level down Ocshmbiaim same way it was done eight o'clock.

Toronto Dating Game

Double game - is just that. He kind of role-playing game aimed at a maximum achievement in connection with mutual benefit. Using the rules of the game improves the performance of marriage while ignoring or opposition to the rules of the game critically hurt chances of relationship success.

The game is designed to double the number of goals: to improve communication between partners, to maximize the potential of the couple relationship and bring the best possible position emotionally and financially.

People who are not willing to play the game couples

Many people are not willing to play the game couples or they simply are not aware of its existence. As a result, they find it difficult to manage relationships and ultimately health, they are left alone without spouses, without understanding why they are rejected by others time after time.

People who are willing to play the game couples believe - mistakenly - that the relationship is a system where everything must be true every moment and situation to accept them unconditionally, they do only what they want, not be measured by the degree of contribution to their relationship, they never will have to settle for things the other side parity is a kind of fantasy in which everything is rosy all the time and compromises practicality.

Game couples There are many rules. For example, a woman has codes and rules of behavior typical only for her while a man has the codes and rules which he committed them off to play.

Or example, there are things they say and some things will never tell even if very fancy and even if that feeling. Attitudes have faced and "Tzimot eyes" are committed to reality and part of every relationship, and finally - there is a set of practical considerations underlying this relationship and it drives the relationship Mtllachthilo kind of "agreement" or "deal" must not violate or deviate from, or based on marriage appeal.

Double game

Tip Finish: Double Game is the oxygen of the relationship. Couplehood without him no chance to flourish. Like the game of life, based on artificial interior positions, the game also requires knowledge of marital art game.

Benefits couples game

People who are willing to play the relationship game - which is actually a game of life - creating relationships, getting married, advanced fulfill themselves. In contrast, people who are willing to subject themselves to rules of the game and prefer to believe that marriage is a place where artificial life offline - usually left alone or abandoned and do not find spouses.

Using smart and effective rules couples can create huge huge difference between life and love blossom even desolation, personal frustration, disappointment and romantic couples chronic loneliness.